5 Things Nobody Tells You About Eyelash Extensions

Eyelash extensions are everywhere, it seems like everyone that’s anyone has them. The really good quality ones are almost impossible to detect, besides the fact that they look so beautifully perfect. I have another post up about the different pricing of extensions and how the quality differs, you can check that out here. This post is all about what to expect when you get eyelash extensions, and just to be warned in case you’re thinking of getting them done.

Eyelash Extensions Tara Michelle

1. You could lose a lot of your actual eyelashes

Yup, starting off with a rough one. It’s true and it happened to me. Depending on where you go and how the lashes are applied, you could lose big chunks of eyelashes… not a pretty thought. I’ve gotten my lashes done multiple times and only once I’ve had this happen to me. I knew when I got them done that they were glued together in clumps, but I wasn’t prepared for how many of my lashes I’d lose. I’m not gonna lie, I was pretty sad about it lol. If you’re going to get eyelash extensions, I cannot urge more that you go somewhere reputable. You definitely do not want to end up with half of your lashes left hahah.

2. You may look lopsided once they start to fall out

Another crappy thing that nobody warns you about!!! Depending on what side you sleep on, or how often you touch one side of your face, the extensions will fall out at different times. I usually sleep on my right so I would end up with half the extensions on that side, but I still had all of the lashes on my left side… which SUCKED. It doesn’t make sense to pay for a fill when one of your eyes still looks perfect, so you’re basically stuck looking lopsided until the eyes even out a bit. So unless you sleep on your back… be warned lol.

3. You’ll probably become addicted… and then broke

Even with all the negatives, they really do look amazing when they’re first done. So amazing to the point where you’ll keep going back to get them re-done, and re-done, and re-done. This is an EXPENSIVE addiction, but it’s so real. It can cost up to $300 for the full application, and then up to $100 every TWO WEEKS to have them filled…. it adds up. That’s not to mention the amount of time spent getting them applied. It can take over 2 hours to get the initial application, and then around an hour for a fill. It’s a very time consuming & expensive addiction.

4. You can’t touch your eyes anymore

The unfortunate truth… eyelash extensions really just make you way more high maintenance. You’re constantly worried about anyone touching your eyes or getting near the extensions, or getting them wet in the shower. Once you brush them out in the morning and they look perfect, there’s no way you’re going to let someone to come and mess them up! That means, no more rubbing your eyes if they’re itchy or dry, no more dunking your head when you’re swimming, no more ANYTHING that revolves around your eyes. Don’t even get me started on taking off eye makeup…

5. They go in all different directions 80% of the time

As I said before, they really are so stunning when they’re first applied. They look good for the first week and then everything just goes to sh!t afterwards. You don’t realize beforehand that it actually takes a lot of effort to make them look as good as they first did. Brushing them out every morning is essential, otherwise each lash is going to go in all different directions. Some of them will twist up with a couple others and then it’s gonna look bunched together and NOT CUTE. I think you get what I’m saying.

I’m completely aware that this post is kind of negative hahah and for that, I apologize. I just wanted those of you who are considering getting lashes to know EXACTLY what you’re getting yourselves into. I really do love lash extensions and loved when I had them. If you do choose to get them, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE go somewhere reputable where you know you won’t lose all your natural lashes… there is no coming back from that! If you’re curious, give it a shot! No real harm in trying something new 🙂



  1. Naysha
    July 13, 2017 / 12:06 pm

    Love your blog ❤️ And love you

    • Shelby DeHaven
      October 19, 2017 / 10:24 am

      Loved this post! I have had eyelash extensions for the last 4 months or so and I’m so in love! I received my first application as a gift for my wedding! So I went in about 5 days before my wedding and I was VERY skeptical! In the beginning, I honestly thought they were unnecessary and high maintenance. Eyelash Extensions… Really?? But who am I to turn away such an awesome wedding gift! (TIP: GET A BRIDE A GIFT CERTIFICATE FOR EXTENSIONS!) Once they were applied, I thought they looked so good but i figured there was no way that they would stay this good! Well, I took really good care of them everyday and they still looked amazing when i went in for my first fill! Mind you, these lashes lasted through my wedding and my honeymoon in Mexico! Bottom line, if you take really good care of them, they can last a long time and look good for a long time! I get mine filled every three weeks at $50 a fill. Definitely a luxury, but so worth it, in my opinion (: Thanks for the post Tara!

  2. Julia
    July 13, 2017 / 12:28 pm

    Loved this! Even though I would probably never do eyelash extensions (I don’t even wear makeup), I’m always curious about how they work so this was still super interesting 🙂

  3. Jessieats
    July 13, 2017 / 12:38 pm

    oooh thanks tara !!! This’s so helpful !!!

  4. melissa
    July 13, 2017 / 1:06 pm

    i think i am going to try to diy them myself! 🙂

    • Tara
      July 13, 2017 / 1:11 pm

      Good luck!!! 🙂

  5. Madison
    July 13, 2017 / 1:07 pm

    I’m obsessed with you and your blog Tara ???? ilysm!!

    • Tara
      July 13, 2017 / 1:12 pm


  6. Jessica K
    July 13, 2017 / 1:09 pm

    Thanks for being honest…I’m getting married next weekend and was thinking about getting these done but idk if I am willing to give up my normal eyelashes for a couple weeks of long beautiful lashs plus I am always touching my eyes!!! Love you!!!

    • Tara
      July 13, 2017 / 1:11 pm

      Ah congrats on getting married!!! If it were me, I’d totally get my lashes done for that kind of occasion! That would be worth it to me! But I guess you could also just do a regular strip lash hahah 🙂

      • Jessica K
        July 13, 2017 / 1:13 pm

        I don’t normally wear lashes so I am content with my normal lashes. Plus I am concerned about them always running on my glasses!

        • Tara
          July 13, 2017 / 1:15 pm

          Oh that’s such a legit thing ahaha I’d have to wear my glasses lower than usual because my lashes would be in the way!!

  7. July 13, 2017 / 1:27 pm

    I’ve been debating between lash extensions and a lash lift because my lashes have no volume at all. Thank you for these 5 tips Tara!!! Have you thought about getting a lash lift or a lash perm?
    Love you Tara!

    • Tara
      July 13, 2017 / 1:43 pm

      Ive also done a lash lift!! It looked REALLY fake and honestly just like I slept on them bad! Maybe she just lifted them too much, but I couldn’t even put on mascara bc my lashes were basically touching my eyelid ahaha

  8. Jasmine
    July 13, 2017 / 1:44 pm

    I’ve been wanting lash extensions because my lashes are so shorts but I rub my eyes so much they wouldn’t last ???? But they look gorgeous on you Tara

  9. July 13, 2017 / 2:21 pm

    I’ve always wanted some but i touch my eyes way too much and i’m always switching between contacts and glasses! thanks for showing the not so glam side of lash extensions, even though yours look bomb

    • Tara
      July 13, 2017 / 3:46 pm

      Hahah I feel ya, I’m the same way! Wish they were longer lasting :(((

  10. Ashley
    July 13, 2017 / 3:51 pm

    Hi Tara! I am looooving your blog! Have you tried eyelash lifts before? If so, what do you think of them?

    • Tara
      July 14, 2017 / 9:45 am

      thank you!!! and i have tried it, really didn’t like it to be honest! they were just TOO lifted!

  11. Alexia Andrea
    July 13, 2017 / 5:13 pm

    I don’t think this post was negative it was more real and not sugar coated which is why ily girl haha would you consider making a post about your experience/ opinion with getting a lash lift? Because my eyelashes are pretty long but mascara weighs them down even if I curl them???? so they never look good hahaha

    • Tara
      July 14, 2017 / 9:47 am

      i don’t have as much to say about a lash lift so i probably wouldn’t make a whole post! but what i can say is that i really didn’t like my lash lift. i do think thats mostly because she just lifted them TOO much. like my lashes almost went back into my crease if that makes sense ahaha. i couldn’t even apply mascara bc of how curled they were!

      • Alexia Andrea
        July 14, 2017 / 12:28 pm

        That’s so interesting! I remember loving how your eyelashes looked but I guess I’ll just stick to my natural/droopy lashes haha

  12. Brooke Arelano
    July 13, 2017 / 5:26 pm

    Thanks (: i was actually debating on doing them for a while. But i prefer to keep my long lashes ???? Would you know if the diy lashes also make you lose your lashes ? ????

    • Tara
      July 14, 2017 / 9:48 am

      the DIY lashes actually don’t make me lose my lashes! the glue isn’t strong enough to pull out my actual lash!

  13. Allaissa
    July 13, 2017 / 9:55 pm

    Even though I would probably never get these done, it was still fun to read your post. I’m loving your blog!

    • Tara
      July 14, 2017 / 9:48 am

      thank you for reading either way!! 🙂

  14. July 15, 2017 / 12:47 pm

    Love itttt!????

  15. Crystal Fuentes
    July 16, 2017 / 12:47 am

    I e actually been wanting eyelash extensions , but I was super nervous of all the above mentioned. So glad I read this!

  16. Bianca
    July 19, 2017 / 2:37 pm

    I find that a lot of these things are almost too good to be true. I mean they look beautiful, but it is only temporary and when it starts to fall apart, it looks a little crazy. Similarly with manicures, I feel like it just isn’t worth the investment. Really enjoyed both your posts about these

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